“I can’t believe the year 2017 is over and 2018 is here”. I feel like we say this every time the year comes to an end but it really is true. With every end of the year comes the dreaded questions, “Did I achieve everything I hoped for this year?”, “What will the new year have in store for me?”
It’s perfectly normal for us to have these questions and fears, cuz’ these feelings are what make us human, right? With change comes risk, with risk comes failure, with failure comes hurt, right?
Or…..with change comes risk, with risk comes success. With success comes joy. I want you to welcome the new year with so much positive energy. Forget the fears of 2017, leave your insecurities behind in 2017 and know 2018 is a clean and new slate for you to start over from.
“The purpose of 2017 was to awaken you to your more authentic, empowered self. This is your foundation as we go into 2018.”
Make a mental note to yourself about your new year goals and focus on your strengths, focus on loving and understanding yourself. It’s time to go against your natural instinct and do what comes unnatural to you.
Look in the mirror. Forget about the rest of the world. all the injustice, hate, pain, and suffering. None of that is going anywhere soon. So again, look in the mirror. See that? It’s You and you’re the source of your own happiness. Never forget that.
✔ Stop apologizing? Yes. Stop apologizing for your skin color, your body shape, for who you love, for how you talk or sound, for being sick, for choosing to leave a toxic relationship, for wanting to be loved, for not choosing to settle in a relationship when you know you deserve more, for not staying in a job that you’re not happy at, and for being you and doing what you love.
✔ Go out. Maybe to a bar. Put on your sexy outfits, go dancing, meet good-looking men or women and actually flirt. Bat your eyelashes, Kiss your crush and sway those hips.
✔ Stop comparing yourself to her. You are enough!!! Envy is a waste of time. You are all you need.
✔ Don’t conform to society’s expectations.
✔ Stop trying to get people to want you or like you. If they want you, they will put serious effort into getting you. Know who you are, know what you want, know what you deserve and don’t settle for less.
✔ Stop being afraid to make mistakes. Make mistakes and learn from them.
✔ Appreciate yourself. Stop explaining yourself. Confidence is so damn sexy. Moisturize your skin, use sugar scrub, paint your nails, curl your hair, wear a flower crown (everyday). Buy yourself roses and burn lavender-scented candles. Take care of yourself cuz YOU ARE A GODDESS!!! YOU MATTER!!!
✔ Stop the negative thoughts and fear about things you can’t control. Invest your energy in the positive present.
✔ Know your limits. Don’t over do. Don’t take on so much tasks so you don’t end up feeling drained and stretched to your limits.
✔ However good or bad a situation is, it will change. No matter the situation, get up, get dressed and show up like the boss babe you are.
If you want a different life, you have to do something different. Be Strong! Be Brave. The winds of change are blowing, 2018 is coming fast and it’s going to be a blast. I can feel it in the air……….
Have a blast, darl.🎉🎉🎉
See you on the other side (2K18).💃💃💃💃